Surviving the Pain

 

For those of us that have been through a relationship breakup or a divorce, at any age, we know how painful, distressing, and depressing this life event is. It seems as though everything you worked for has just vaporized. I’ve been through this nightmare myself and I know many other women and men that are trying to regain their footing during and after this grieving process. I’d like to offer to help you get through this incredibly painful time in your life by openly and honestly talking about the emotional roller coaster of emotions you may be feeling during this time. If there is one thing that I do know about breakups and divorce, it’s that you can survive the pain and you can feel better again. It may not feel like it right now, but you can.  I found incredible support when recovering from my divorce by learning to reconnect with my inner energy source.  You can call it God.  You can call it Source.  You can call it your Divine Self.  It doesn’t really matter.  But we all have it within us; everything does.  Maybe you are already keenly aware of your inner energy source.  Or maybe you’ve lost touch with it over the years.  Either way, I’d like to offer my help so you can strengthen your connection with your inner energy so you can regain your self-esteem, heal and grow, and go on in your life to create Your Best You.

 

Positive Psychology

You may feel sad, angry, or maybe even relieved after your breakup or divorce, and it’s important to know that, in my opinion, all of these emotions are all 100% fine.  You are not wrong for feeling any of them.  And the more emotions you feel, the better.  That’s a good thing.  For awhile though, you may even feel…well…nothing.  Numb.  I know I did.  And that’s ok, too.  Let’s just identify those feelings as they emerge and then maybe even have a little chat about them, but let’s get them out in the open so you can avoid getting stuck in a spiral of negative thinking that could steal precious days, weeks, months, or even years away from living your best life.

On this site, you’ll have opportunities to comment on my posts or if you need more privacy I do offer 1 on 1 private coaching sessions for a reasonable cost.  But my goal is to provide you with as much free content as I can so you can stand tall, hold your head up, and feel fully confident that you are amazing and capable of attracting and manifesting your most awesome life and Your Best You.  And we do this by exploring positive psychology.

The Law of Attraction

Yes, I do believe in the Universal Laws.  Each of them are important and they each have their purpose.  The first one we will explore is the Law of Attraction.  I know first hand that as humans we are capable of choosing to create a life full of happiness and joy beyond our wildest dreams.  But sometimes we need a little push, or maybe a really big push, to get out of the negative spiral caused by a painful breakup or devastating divorce.  It’s all about changing our mindset and one by one peeling away the sad and even angry thoughts that keep us stuck in our deep dark rut.  All of the Universal Laws will support us as we heal and move forward with our new life.  And we’ll start with the Law of Attraction.

As we move through the writings, I hope you will share your stories and your successes of how you moved forward to create your new life so others can celebrate with you and learn from you as we each strive to create our best version of ourselves.  There is life after a breakup or divorce, and I can’t wait to get started helping you create Your Best You!

All the best,

Susan N.
SplitsvilleCoach.com